When does it crash for you?
(On server connect at the "loading map" part)
What was the last thing you have seen before it crashed?
(On of the exile "connect to server"-wallpaper (down below the dropboxlink includes screenshots))
Does it crash every time or just sometimes?
(Every time since 0.9.8)
Which Arma version and branch (Stable, Dev, RC/Sneak Peak) are you running?
Which Arma DLCs do you own? Karts? Marksmen? APEX? Helicopters? Zeus?
(All of them)
Which operating system are you using?
Are you using a custom memory allocator? (-malloc start-up parameter)
Please let off some steam here
(No rant needed. you guys do a good job.)
If possible, please show us your .rpt file, e.g. via Pastebin
If possible, upload the last "Minidump" (.bidmp and .mdmp files) here. You can find them next to the .rpt